“As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies—in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.” 1 Peter 4:10-11
Scripture pulls no punches: not if each has received a gift, but as each has received a gift. The purpose is serving one another through God’s abundant generosity. God keeps things simple for us. So, why do we wonder what we’re supposed to do, how much we’re supposed to do, and often miss the point while we’re doing it?
Most of us feel tired. We’re stretched with careers, growing children, ailing bodies, and demanding class schedules. What can tired people do when the needs are high all around them? There is discernment and direction for us in God’s word. We are to walk in the ways Jesus walked (1 Jo 2:6) and seek to understand his will for the time, resources, energy and capacity he’s given us (Eph 5:15-16). The good news is that we can do so without overwhelm, guilt, or burnout if we quietly listen to where he’s calling us to go. I’ve outlined just three basic responses below.
Look to Christ
High needs, right hand is a motto that has rung in my ears for the past several months. On a rainy Monday morning, I was busy doing laundry while muttering prayers. I had just realized there was a trail of paper scraps through the study, and I could faintly hear two brothers bickering from the upstairs hallway. My daughter had just come in to ask me a math question while the timer beeped (again) on an overdone egg-bake in the oven. Above all the small neediness of the household, I had my own internal needs that felt pressing. My soul needed comfort from God in a stressful situation, and my emotions felt raw.
In that season, I was reading through Romans and had just paused in chapter 8. Verse 34 wafted back to me like a fresh spring breeze that lifted the fog
Who is to condemn? Christ Jesus is the one who died—more than that, who was raised, who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us.
High needs, right hand.
We can stagger when there are so many voices jockeying for our attention. But the first and most important thing we can do is look to Christ. He is at the right hand of the Father right now. Condescending to us and interceding for us right now. Who better, then, to ask for direction and insight? Who better to prioritize our to-do lists and alleviate our guilt? Who better to show us how to live, serve, and die?
The gospel transforms our spiritual gift perspective by reminding us that it’s not about us and what we can do—it’s about Jesus and what he has done. We don’t answer the call to serve working toward approval but rather working from approval—our approval is secure and unshakable in Christ. There are high needs all around us, and each of them has a legitimate pull for our attention. When we look to Christ, we marvel at the way he walked, the life he calls us to live, the death he died, and the beauty of his presence with us all our days. The flustered feelings of not doing or being enough find their place in the dust among the rubble of our insecurity and pride. Only then are we free to speak with his wisdom, discern what pleases him, and receive the strength he supplies. We work our fingers to the bone out of gratitude and humble love for his people, for we are merely responders to his mercy.
Involve Your Leadership
As you look to Christ, you can rest in the providential care of the leadership God has placed over you. If you have a husband, ask where he sees your gifts being best used. If you’re in a conversation with a deacon, ask how your natural talents and abilities can help with physical needs of the church. Seek counsel from your elders about where they see gaps in the local body that your spiritual gifts might fill. Open yourself up to wisdom from brothers and sisters in your church. Tune your ear for echoes from the church announcements or bulletin. Study the people God has put in front of you. In our American context, we prize individuality. However, when we look to Scripture, giftings are much more communal. Peter reminds us, it’s been given that you might give. Involving someone else in something we’ve made so personal can be unnerving. We may have convinced ourselves that we’re gifted in an area that we’re not. We might cringe at the actual need of the church compared to the exciting thing we thought we could offer. A chaotic season of life may mean we need to heed counsel to pull back for a time. In humility, we must listen to the wisdom of the leadership over us.
Do the Next Thing
Have you ever wondered why spiritual gift tests are such a draw for Christians? Like some kind of alternative to personality assessments, we flock to these formulas to tell us where we fit within the body and where we are weak. They can be helpful when the results are used correctly and held loosely. Worst case scenario: we note our frail areas and excuse our lack of serving while boasting about our strengths. Best case scenario: we take seriously 1 Peter 4 and get to work.
A good amount of our fretting over which way to walk is cured by just taking the first step. One of my favorite authors, Elizabeth Elliot, quipped:
When you don’t know what to do, do the thing in front of you.
“There are a million things in front of me!”, you might protest. Great—pick one. The question is not, who am I and what do I have? The question is, what grace have I experienced, and how does that serve others well? We don’t need to spend our time lamenting the gifts we weren’t given, nor are we permitted to envy the gift another has. We are called to get busy doing what’s been laid in our path with what he’s given us. Sometimes, our over-analytical approach to how we should serve within our local church is nothing more than a glorified roadblock to obedience.
In the Strength God Supplies
God often calls us to spaces where we feel our weakness more than we feel our strength. Remember, he is in the business of making shaky things solid by his strong arm. When we only gravitate toward serving in an area in which we feel totally comfortable and refuse to meet any need outside that range, we miss out on the comfort God gives his people when they rely on him. I’m not advocating that you grab a mic if you’re tone deaf or help balance the church budget if you struggle with basic math. However, we are a gullible people who can easily cite reasons for not relying on the strength God supplies.
Maybe serving one another isn’t as daunting as we’ve made it. The simplicity of the gospel should fuel our posture toward one another in a way that is natural, even if it’s hard. Let’s commit to asking ourselves how Christ might be exalted through our going low and serving in unseen places. How might it please God to do a mighty work, by the power of his Spirit, in ordinary and busy people like us?
In order that in everything, God may be glorified through Jesus Christ.
Don’t be deceived: this little corner of Washington will echo into eternity. Christ is Lord, and all gifts, all talents, all time, all resources are his.
To Him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.
